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At least now lightness is accepted everywhere and no one will make you haul on the horse's mouth to prove anything....or...oh dear, PLEASE don't tell me they will. I don't think I could handle that.
On the "Ultimate Dressage Bulletin Board" they were comparing photos- one where the horse is obviously worked with a long neck and light rein in all gaits and frames, and another that by his muscling was obviously ridden in Rolkur but brought "up" for competition. Everyone agreed the horse was probably ridden in rolkur, but becuase there was NO SLACK in the rein on the second horse, they said it was a better ideal pic for dressage. The first ridder- heaven forbid_ had just a tiny tiny bit of curve in her curb rein... so OBVIOUSLY the horse is NOT ACCEPTING of the bit?!?!?!? That is why I participate on this forum and not that one.
Oh dear. Just what I feared. The same old thinking. That the horse must submit and be "held" by the rider's hands.
The use of the term "accept the bit," is a euphonism, nothing more. It means hurt the horse's mouth. It always has and always will.
Even in lightness a constant never ending pressure can produce pain. Try it sometime. I've experimented with such things for years and years. I used to have my students assume a horse position and put a saddle and bridle for weight on their back and ask them to hold it for the entire 50 minute class. They'd be crying by 20 minutes. I'd end it. These were the things I taught them that resulted in the riding they did you see in the pictures of them at shows.
Even a bitless bridle, such as a cowboy halter, or caveson type. Put your finger against your nose where the bone turns to cartilage and notice in ever a relatively short time, minutes, your nose will start feeling very funny. And when you let go the feeling of pressure will stay with you for some time afterward.
If you can handle 20 minutes of that pressure I'd be surprised. I even pad my hackamore nose and jaw parts.
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Hang it in the mouth, just don't use it.
Train to the principle of brideless riding.
My thoughts always! I have clients, I have high goals- My horses wear a bit a lot, but it is never used for control- light reminders for bend, access to relaxing the back... stretching into the bit as max, but I try to always keep bridle-less in the back of my mind. That is why this forum has been so great for me.
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I'm not clear on what you mean by "going around hollow." Can you clarify for me?
Head up, back tight. Inverted/ concave topline. Of course I usually use a rope hackamore to get soft lateral bend each direction which indirectly allows me to soften and raise the back, but occasionally I find horses where a french link snaffle is simple more effective. Even without time constraints I put the horse's back above his mouth in importance ( I also believe that making a horse usable/ridable is helping to assure him a good home). I'm sorry- I don't mean to make this thread about my thoughts/beliefs/ values on bits or anything else, but since I am in a position where I technically could get monetary gain by pushing a horse way too fast, my values are important to the topic!
I'm also in a position to show what can be accomplished without bits or restraints, but if I don't come in the top ten, no one will hear about it!!! I have to balancebetween what I like, and what the judges will like and still stay within my values! My other concern is that the horse WILL be sold to someone who probably WILL ride him/her in a bit, so to not prepare the horse for that would be irresponsible on my part!!!
Ahh, the frustraing details- and I didn't even get the horse yet!!! Of course, once I do, I'll know better what exact route to go and won't be thinking about it all day anymore
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A final thought, if you haven't mentioned it already. Keep a journal (here if you would be so kind) and pics and vids, pics and vids.
You WILL have a salable story when you are done, no matter the outcome.
I'm practically holding my breath. And I want a signed copy of the book and or video.
Do we have an emoticon for head swelling?!
I do plan on keeping a journel, but i won't put it on the web until after I've tried to get it published somewhere.
(Just in case!!!) After April and the contest is all over, I can possibly email it to any one interested.[/quote]
I thought that was what you meant by "hollow," but wanted to make sure I wasn't missing anything.
And while it's an ugly concept, even the word makes me cringe, it's so descriptive of the entire horse.
They lose who they really are. I've seen them. I've owned them. And I see owners in AND doing wonders with just such formerly hollow horses. Such patience. I know I did not do as well.
As for your journal, yes, I think I understand why you'd want to keep it private for now.
And to the constant worry about the responsibility to bit the horse because of his possible future owner...oh how well I know that one. Not just this current horse, but nearly all the horses I trained in my youth. I hated seeing them later in show rings, or returned to me "for a tune up."
You mention not wanting to make this thread about your struggles with the horsethics (my new word). My goodness that IS what AND is so much about. Here we CAN and want to struggle with this. Some one must. I do. Others here do. This is a good thing in my mind.
Your heart, and mind too, I think are in the right place. You might, from time to time not find full agreement with some principle you espouse, but here I know you will find support for your questioning of it.
How about giving a short course of lessons, even a day or two, to go with the horse to the winning bid?
Good for your reputation. And good for the horse. If you can find the time.
Why not write a letter of proposal for a book, or article, and shop it around the publications putting out horse books?
Has anyone written anything about this process you are going through? If so, could you put a different slant on it? Aim at a different market say? Periodical if they did a book, or book if only periodicals have been done this story already?
You might get some offers, and your name would be out there ahead of the herd, so to speak.
It's a standard procedure in the publishing world. I'm in it. But nothing remotely connected to the horse world.
We like to see proposals. And develop a relationship before if possible. Each of seeing if we can work together.
Donald Redux