More and more somethings start to make sense when long ago maybe they were obviously non-sense to me, which as time passes I came to realize it was me the one who was not prepared to see beyond
I can so relate to that. I think have the same thing in almost all the relevant aspects of my life - although I am not sure whether with time I am really always learning to understand things better, or just differently. But then in retrospect it is much easier to assume I was a bit short-sighted in the past than it would be to complain about the views I will hold in the future.
Anyway, don't worry about hijacking, that's one of the things the forum is for.