Pieter,
I got my first horse almost 7 years ago, I had no horse experience or training. I think that this has helped as I view horses very differently than alot of horse trained people I know, they see horses as something they have to master, something which must totaly obey every task asked, but most of all the one thing I do notice about most conventionaly trained horse people is their absolute seriousness everytime they are in the company of a horse. They suddenly become as strict as a school mistress, which is so sad, as for the short period of time that I've gotten to know horses, this is the worst way to be with a horse, a horse wants to have fun, he wants to enjoy his time with his human companion, with all the seriousness I often wonder how some people can enjoy the horse they are riding at all.
I respect the horses feelings in any situation as I would another human or any other animal, unfortunatly this is again something often denied to the average ridden horse. I just want to have fun with my horses, and never take anything too seriously, they are so full of humour and they realy do thrive in a relationship based on trust and fun, the respect comes back to you automaticaly because you respected them.
I don't write this as a knock at anyone who has trained conventionaly with horses, but just as an insight to the thinkings of someone who understands nothing of this other horse world. I know I could write for ever on this subject alone, I think so many people are discovering the amazing relationship which can be struck between a human and a horse once you look outside the 'horses are just for riding' attitude which has dominated our lives with these wonderful animals for centuries.
By the way Pieter, your chap is stunning, I would love to see him introduced to some fun, he would just love it.