Miriam wrote:
In my not yet that mobile state I couldn't really do anything with the ponies today, but I did have two pieces of old bread and a bucket, so I thought why not and did one of the tests: place food under the bucket in front of the horse and see how quick he has removed the bucket and eaten the food.
As Sjors was only halfway the paddock and Blacky stood right in front of me at the other side of the gate, he was first. I put the food under the bucket and after about, lets say, three milliseconds Blacky had tossed the bucket out of his way and had devoured the bread. It was to be expected.
Sjors however was really interesting: I placed the food under the bucket in his sight after letting him see/sniff it, just as with Blacky, Sjors immediately moved his nose down to the bucket but then stopped, looked up at me, went down the the bucket, looked up to me again and when I still didn't react, he also pushed the bucket away and grabbed the food. It was really interesting to see him do that. It was as if he was waiting for a cue from me for what to do specifically with the bucket in order to have the treat - and that could gone from touch it with your nose, grab it, place a leg on it, to kick it etc. I just held still and didn't say anything, but I wonder if it would be okay if I had said 'Go on' (toe maar) which is our cue for 'follow your instinct/do what you want/think is best?
That is what your stillness said, loudly.
Can horses 'love?'
I know my love for another often displaces my needs.
I can't say horses love, but what could say to us they do not?
Miriam wrote:
Next weekend Lydia is over and then I'll make her do the entire list with us. Because we would really need a helper to do them - especially to keep the ponies away from the food while I try to hide it, as Blacky already demonstrated.
Please continue. This excites and fascinates me.
Because of my years and years of doing standard horse handling and training I am, I believe, partially desensitized to the horse's expressions of feelings and psychological intent. They are hard for me to see, to feel.
Thus, work such as this, yours, if you can call it work, continues to open up my mind and feelings toward the horse.
It's painful in some ways, but it is enriching as well.
Thank you,
Donald R.