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Author:  bloem [ Fri Dec 31, 2010 5:41 pm ]
Post subject:  (I need some help, some support) we made the first part

I know, I don't post much message.
Only when it don't go good....
But it is than that I need so much support or help....


This year came a big change in my life.
It did give me back the mood to be in live,
the mood to go for it.
It was special to have someone who respect you in all you way.
Someone who help you to grow
to find back your self
someone who support and help you to start your own life...

someone who loves you
someone who you loves

We fought and worked hard to hope we can stay togehter...
Afther, the first bad news
Took it much time to get back happy
but we had work to do
so that we should stay to getter for ever
so that noone couth take him away of me

But the time is running...

We have exactly 12 days to do the last work

It looks so bad for us....

How can human be so bad
How can human decide like that about someones live

I wouldn't signs for his dead...

I realy hope 2011 will be a good year and will bring us hope and love
I promise my love that I should fight
more than ever
for us live,
for us love,
...

Noone take you away of me ....



I hope it is not to long what I wrote,
But I hope you will give us good mood ....
I wish everybody it best for 2011,
I hope you will find the love and happiness who I find
I hope noone will take it away of you ....

The best for everyone in 2011
and I will try to make the best of my live


the only thing I still want to tell is that I feel so bad so unlucky
:sad: :sad:

Author:  Romy [ Fri Dec 31, 2010 6:11 pm ]
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:pet: I wish you lots of strength and hope that 2011 will be much better for you and you will have lots of support from all your animals.

And don't worry, your post wasn't too long - but I am not sure I understood what you meant. Who is deciding over whose life? What will happen in 12 days?
Anyhow, all the best for you! :friends:

Author:  Josepha [ Fri Dec 31, 2010 7:57 pm ]
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oh no Elke, how is that possible? Please, there has to be something you can do or some place you can go to stop this!!!
What if we set up a huge petition to keep him here?

please mail me, let's do something!

Author:  Josepha [ Fri Dec 31, 2010 8:01 pm ]
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Ralph asks if you can get a laywer maybe? One who works pro bono? Or a law student?
If there is anything we can do, please let us know!!!

Author:  bloem [ Fri Dec 31, 2010 9:16 pm ]
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Realy thank you Romy and Josepha ( you have message).

@ Romy, my boyfriend is a political refugee but they don't believe him, I don't know what they will do with him if he comes back in his country....

Author:  Romy [ Fri Dec 31, 2010 9:20 pm ]
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bloem wrote:
my boyfriend is a political refugee but they don't believe him, I don't know what they will do with him if he comes back in his country....


Can you marry him so that you can stay with you? That's what my neighbour did when they wanted to send her boyfriend back to Albany.

Author:  Birgit [ Fri Dec 31, 2010 9:38 pm ]
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I'm so sorry about your situation. You and your boyfriend are in my prayers. I have no idea about the details of your situation but believe God does and he cares. :f:

Birgit

Author:  PiePony [ Sun Jan 02, 2011 6:57 pm ]
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I am at a loss to offer help, perhaps you can contact
http://www.liberty-human-rights.org.uk/index.php they may be able to advise?

THE CONTACT PAGE IS http://www.liberty-human-rights.org.uk/contact-us.php
Thinking of you. xx

Author:  Josepha [ Sun Jan 02, 2011 7:37 pm ]
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sweetheart, I did not receive a message from you, just letting you know :kiss:

Author:  bloem [ Thu Jan 20, 2011 10:39 am ]
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We had bad news, he has again negative...

We did know that it should happen but not so fast,...

We realy need more time.... :sad:

Author:  Donald Redux [ Thu Jan 20, 2011 9:34 pm ]
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These issues are matters of law in most countries. Seek out a legal expert. Look for groups that have dealt with this issue.

Make and appeal to the court/magistrate, whoever, that makes the final decision - ask for time and explain your situation.

Though I am strongly in favor of letting the universe have my problem I know that the universe doesn't act in my behalf if I do nothing. I am expected to act in my behalf as well.

Talk to everyone possible. Someone has succeeded and is out there waiting for you to ask them how. Run ads, but. up flyers (little notes on public bulletin boards), don't quite, ever.

Can you find a sponsor for him? Someone with influence? Look for politicians that have helped in the same matters in the past. Keep going. We are all hoping for you and for a wonderful outcome.

Hugs to you both, Donald

Author:  Josepha [ Fri Jan 21, 2011 11:04 am ]
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In Holland, a family could stay that was initially deported, but Dutch friends wrote to the minister of immigration directly and he personally give them permission to stay forever.
Maybe we can do the same In Belgium/Flandria?

It's people we are talking about, not papers... damn, it annoys me so much. If people want to live here let them, why not?
Especially this sweet intelligent and gentle young man!

Author:  Leigh [ Sat Jan 22, 2011 10:16 pm ]
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I'm so sorry! I'm sure this is agonizing for you.

I do know here in the US, at least, that the people I've known who've been fighting stupidity like this have been successful when they've found a politician to help them -- generally a US Congressman or Senator. They can pull strings and get papers filled out and ask for favors and such that changes the game.

I wish you all the best of luck!!!
:f:

Best,
Leigh

Author:  bloem [ Thu Feb 03, 2011 1:04 pm ]
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Thanks all of you.

The lawyer wouldn't do again appeal. We had to pay €500 for the appeal (and also the lawyer).
And he is sure they will say NO, he wouldn't risk it....

But there is an other law about pregnancy.
So I'm pregnant, it was an accedent but I think there is a reason for all, only you don't see always why.
Us baby is the only one, who still can save him.
Let we hope that it will go good.
We go monday to the lawyer with the papers and hope the best...

Author:  Josepha [ Thu Feb 03, 2011 1:41 pm ]
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my thoughts are with the three of you.

And congrats, now that you've told the world! :kiss: With two parents such as you, this baby will be a wonderful and beautiful person!

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